Living Beautifully
08 Mar 2025 - 27 Oct 2025
- book by Pema Chödrön rec from Meaningness
- Clinging to fixed ideas of ourself – that's ego.
- So, the goal is not to not have a self, it's to have an adaptable, flexible self.
- That's my own language and perhaps not an accurate reflection, I've only read a couple of pages!
- ego-clinging is more insidious than, I don't know, clinging to money or status. Harder to see.
- possibly inescapable?
- Buddhism is really just weaponized Panta Rhei
- As is Bergsonism I suddenly realize
- When things fall apart in your life, what is really falling apart is your fixed ideas about yourself, and that is a cause for celebration.
- paraphrase p7
- "the fundamental groundlessness of being human"
- Yeah OK. But what if that is not the case? That there is a ground?
- When plagued with shenpa, that is, deep emotional feelings of desire or aversion, "open yourself fully to the sensation, free of interpretation".
- I want to say this is not possible, but then I say, the very act of trying makes itself real somehow. Hm. Trying to say something very simple, no magic or pompous reality-shaping abilities required.
- Ch 2 Life Without the Story Line